Pay attention to dogs’ body posture. They will take turns being the “alpha” on top; they will alternate chasing. A submissive dog will introduce himself by laying on its side or crouching so the other dog can sniff and “meet” him. The shy dog should come out of his shell if play is healthy, acting as an equal participant in the jumping and chasing.
It is healthy for dogs to play in a sort of dancing pose, standing on hind legs in an embrace, where one dog is the lead. As long as they take turns being the lead, or alpha, the couple can dance all they want!
Monitor dog play, especially when your dog is meeting a new friend. Here are some danger signs to watch:
• Ganging behavior – watch that dogs play fair and don’t pick on one participant
• Unequal matches – size isn’t everything; some big dogs are intimidated by small, feisty characters
• Over-Domination – one dog is clearly in charge and aggressive, not allowing the other to chase back or take a turn being on top during some playful wrestling